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*overboy4
writes: The girl I have been dating I have known almsot all her life. I'm 22 and shes 18. I have known her since she was in 2nd grade. Its my est friends sister, we dated a year and a half ago behind my friends back for 4 months and then he found out and flipped out so we broke up cause it was to much for her to handle. After her and I she got into another relationship that she was in for 9 months and she was in love with him and got pregnant by him but had a miscarriage and then treated him like crap after that and he broke up with her in july of 09. Her and I started dating again on december 30 2009 of course with her brothers permission this time. Her and I date for about 2 months and I was about to be put on house arrest. I became really needy and clingy cause I was scared, eventually she told me she wanted a break. She says shes really likes me alot but she does not know what she wants. She still calls me all the time, we talk every chance we get, she said she still wants to be friends but when she comes to hang out with me its only like for 40 minutes and thats only like once a week. What should I do?
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reader, EnjoyingTheRide +, writes (26 March 2010):
Seeems to me, she's not very decisive. Well, I think the best thing you can do is give her time. I'd say she's not that much in love with you, but you wrote she calls you all the time, so I can't really make it out... I recommend you to stay close to her if she wants it, so she can decide whether she loves you. And give her time. That's all you can do.
Wish you good luck ;)
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