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writes: I'm 15 and there is this girl at school and she keeps looking at me and been nice. To day she asked me if she was fat and then started acting really girly. I said no you are slim; stop being stupid. Does she fancy me? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, raerae +, writes (18 June 2006):
Yes, these are the signs she is always trying to get your attention it. Sounds like she's saying things like that play along soon you will get to know her and you might have a chance if you like her enough. Hope this helps xxx
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reader, Bev Conolly +, writes (14 June 2006):
It's likely that she's trying to get your attention anyway, and that's a start. Now ask yourself: do I like her?
If the answer's Yes, you could help things along by not telling her she's "acting stupid"! Nothing will put the brakes on a flirtatious girl quicker than a thoughtless put-down.
When she asks you things like "am I fat?" that's your cue to say something to her that makes her feel good about you, something like "No, you look great to me!"
Yes, it's all a game, and kind of a stupid one, I'll admit. But if you like her, you can play along so that you can show her in an indirect way that you're a little interested too.
Good luck.
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reader, bonym +, writes (14 June 2006):
Well its a possibility but auntie_claire is spot on, try and at least be freinds first and see how you get on!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2006): Probably! If she smiles at you all the time, talks to you whenever possible, and asks questions like 'am I fat?' or 'am I pretty?' then chances are she like you!
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (13 June 2006):
dear reader i think its safe to say yes but don't just jump right in with your eyes closed be friends get to know her first.
good luck to you xxx
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