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writes:Have you ever broken up with your boyfriend / girlfriend because you thought you no longer loved them and then later realized that you made a mistake? Have you had this experience? Were you successful in getting back together? Please share your story.... Reply to this Question
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (8 August 2009):
 I don't know how much time has passed since you broke things off so what you're feeling might just be part of the healing process. The other thing you didn't say, was whether or not your ex is now involved with someone else. If he is, leave him alone. He will not feel the same way about this situation, and he will think you are trying to interfere with his new relationship. However, if he isn't seeing anyone, you can make an attempt to contact him for a reconciliation. Just be up front and tell him what you told us, that you think you may have made a mistake. But be careful, he may not feel the same way and you will have to hear those words which will be painful. If you are prepared to deal with that, then go ahead.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 August 2009):
Ah right, sorry we get a lot of very general questions and they get annoying after a while.
If this is your problem then I can give you advice.
You are grieving the loss of your relationship.
Right now you are in denial. You are thinking that he's going to call any minute and tell you he's an idiot and he still loves you.
You'll call him and promise you'll change and try harder soon. That's bargaining.
You'll get SO angry at him for wasting your time and hurting you.
And finally, you will accept that this happens. That not everyone is truely in love with each other and some times after a few years, the feelings just fade.
You'll start seeing yourself as a single girl and how you can now do anything you want in the world. You'll see the possibilities and then you'll start seeing other guys as attractive.
After that you can move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis is not a survey. This is my experience. My boyfriend just ended it with me bc he said the love has passed and I want to know if it could ever come back. If anyone out there has once said to someone the love is gone but later regretted it.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 August 2009):
Hey, this is not a problem, so you may not get many answers.
If you want a nice survey style chat then you might have more luck in the forums.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): i had a relationship with this one guy lets call him cris. anyways he wasnt cute or nun but he is the sweetest guy ever.wen we met i was going out with another guy and i was cheating on that guy with 2 other guys. my boyfriend at that time was a huge jerk to me. but i dind want to end it cuz i loved him alot. then weeks later after i meet cris my bf broke up with me. then cris had asked me out a bunch of time and i had tuned him down all of those times. so i fannily dicided to give him a chance. its was all going great. we would skip class to be with each other. he isnt the type of guy who just wants sex. his 17 and his still a virgin. im younger then him but i have had 13 guys in one year. he know that i love to fuck. and since he was a virgin i had to end it with him. so i did. then i got engaged the next day. after 3 days engaged i cheated on my fiance like 5 times. and i realized that i only liked cris. even though my fiance was also a down to eath guy. but yeah i didnt get bck with cris. he wanted to get bck with me. but i told him i was to young to have a boy friend. up to this day we r still talking. were not going out. we do kiss and tell each other i love u. but i still go out with other guys and he know it. but yeah i did regret breaking up with him
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