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36-40,
*luvme23
writes:I'm involved with a guy we'll call him X It's been going on a little over a year now. But I'm sure the end is near. This past weekend his friend Y had a house warming. Y invited my friend who he's been seeing for a few months now. Im not a fan of Y but that's another story. My friend asked me to go with her to the house warming and I did. At first it was cool. Once we started talking to other people who there, they started asking how I knew Y. My answer was the same everytime. I don't really know him; he's a friend of my guy. So there's another guy there, we'll call him Z. He's Y friend but an enemy of my guy. So he asks me the same question; how do I know Y? I tell him he's a friend of a friend. He asks me who the mutual friend is. I tell him and he acts like he's never heard of my guy before which is cool. But then his friend starts acting up! Saying a lot of disrespectful things about my guy. And I wasn't having it. Me and Z's random friend get into a big argument. So Y comes over to see what the noise was about. I tell him and he just dismisses it. But my guy X is supposedly Y's right hand man and I didnt see how he could let someone talk about his friend like that. And I expressed this to Y. Needless to say he didn't understand where I was coming from. Then Z comes up to me and tries to diffuse the situation. But his friend was still running off at the mouth so we stepped into a room. I told him I don't care how you feel about X but you will not disrespect him in my presence. Anything you have against him or to say to him you wait til he's present. He agrees. Then he goes on to tell me when the problem between them started. I don't know how this happened but we ended up kissing. Now I don't know if I should tell X. Or wait til it comes out and deny the whole thing?
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (7 February 2012):
 Tell him. Its going to blow up soon and its better he hears it from you that anyone else. In any case you've mentioned at the beginning of your post that you know that you and X are nearing the end of your relationship, this would just hasten the process.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (6 February 2012):
 I vote for telling because it's sure to come out and it's better to tell then have to admit.
under no circumstances do you lie....
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