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writes: Ok so i been going out with this girl and it may hav eonly been for a short while i think we've liked each other for ages but her friend liking me stopped us going out. Im 15 and shes 14 and today i fingered her and she tossed me off. and i know that you guys must get this question everydaybut its so annoying because i came in about 30 seconds and it wasnt best timing as it was the firsat time i'd met her parents tht day i dnt htink they found out but still.Is there anyway tostop it from happening soooooo quickly?? it was embarasing. iv'e been tossed off by a girl before and she did it for about 5/10 mins and then i came why all of a sudden is it hapening faster? surely as i get older it would slow up.. this is so embarassing i need some help Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Thachorie +, writes (30 July 2006):
Sometimes it can take ages and sometimes it can take seonds it just depends on how nervous you are, you may have been nervous because you had met her parents that day or subconciously nervous. Theres nothing you can do to slow it down but try relaxing it always helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2006): I say don't fret about it.
If you were as keen on thsi girl as you said, and you were prevented from being together then no doubt you've had a lot of time to think about her and basically to fantisise about what will happen when you get together. Add to this a pretty stressful day (meet the parents) and it's no wonder than within 30 seconds you'd come.
I bet she never thought it was a big deal. I know I wouldn't - in fact I'd be flattered.
Take time though you're still kids, (yes really) don't rush it and keep safe.
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