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writes:hi im 37 year old female, ive been seeing a guy now for 2 months, but we only have one problem. sex,, he says it isnt a problem for him and he doesnt push me, but i just cant relax, and im anxious about things, what if i dont please him, or if i make a fool of myself with noises, and movement, i just freeze, he hits the spot every time but my mind just drifts onto what he is thinking, then i get frustrated because i cant orgasm, then i cry, i know it must sound daft, but ive been like this for a while with men,, i love him dearly and i dont want this to split us up,, please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008): Just forget he's there & pretend you're solo! Works for me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe is into foreplay, and he wants to please me, but 2 hours is along time,, and i cant tell him what i want, i get embarrassed,,
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008): Guys aren't very complicated about sex. But our time delay is different from girls. I don't think most guys are into the fore play. Since I only have one shot at it, I want to spend about two hours maximum before it happens. So I want to use my hands on her. For that amount of time,,, we need encouragement, If you sound bored, we get bored faster. Tell us what you want and like, we try most anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionno he hasnt cheated on me, but the father to my son did, which was years ago,
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008): Has he ever cheated or said any thing to make you feel this way?
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