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writes:im in a fairly new relationship and would like to try sex texting but iv never done it before and im not even sure what kind of things to put dowm.. any tips?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): Keep it to insinuation and double entendres, don't be explicit, tease him.
Use the kind of language that only he'll understand something which he'll know what you mean but can easily be explained away. You know things like "I have no spoon to stir my coffee, you dont have one do you?" is one such in-joke I have with my girlfriend, but if anyone else was to see it wouldn't really mean anything to them.
Plus sexting is like sending photos, you should always make sure they're of the sort that you wouldn't mind others seeing.
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reader, Honest Answer  +, writes (15 April 2010):
 Don't send any pictures of yourself that you wouldn't want the entire world to see. Once it is sexted, you have to assume that if or when the relationship is over, this will be rebroadcasted.
But on another note, since you are of age, I see nothing wrong with it. I say different strokes for different folks.
Good Luck!
Jeff
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): sexting is so goofy! lol Are you wanting to have an active sexting session, or do you want to just send a dirty text to get the ball rolling for later? The 1 or 2 just to get the idea in his head is as far as i've ever gone. I like the idea of him being at work, getting the text, knowing whats coming, and thginking about it the rest of the day. But if your boyfriend can't come over later or lives far away, try phone or cyber sex. A full out sext session would probably get awkward. who can really text that good?
As for things to say... tell him about some new lingerie that you want to model, or say that youve wanted him all day and its making you crazy. anything implying sex later will get the ball rolling, and his response will make it easier.
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