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writes:My girlfriend is trying to get me to have sex with her she said she is already frustrated with me and because we're together we should be doing that. What should I do? I already told her I wanted to take things slow and not rush into thing but it seems like it's pushing her away. Reply to this Question
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reader, MattayBabay  +, writes (26 November 2008):
if she gets mad at you because you wont give her something that you dont want to... then thats just immature and not real love.. and shes probably not worth it
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reader, Vicki68 +, writes (21 November 2008):
I'm a lesbian who has had 5 partners. All 5 times I had sex before I was ready. One of those relationships actually worked out, but--I gave up self respect 5 times by giving in. If she loves you, she'll wait. Don't worry about "what if she doesn't?" If she doesn't, she's an ass. Personally, I don't understand the hype. You have your whole life to have sex. Why are people in such a hurry to jump into bed? The bed isn't going anywhere...unless it's not paid off for yet, but there's always the floor.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 November 2008):
I agree completely with everything Uncle Phil said.
Wait till you are ready and she won't then she's not worth it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2008): The average red-blooded male would probably tell you to give her one. But I'm not average.
I'll give you the same advice that I would to a woman of your age asking the same question, which is don't do it until you're ready - and only for the right reasons ie. that you love her intensely and want to show how much you love her in a physical way.
If she can't wait until you're ready she's not worth hanging on to.
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