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writes:Hi. I don't know if this possible or not.. but I just turned 21 a few months ago and since then, I have been sexually frustrated. I have a bf and been with him for 4 years but lately, when we have sex, I don't get off as I usually do. I mean, I'm not exactly a sex addict or something like that, but I love sex. I alway want to have sex. I alway want to have a orgasm whether if it with my bf or myself. Lately, when I do get to that spot, it just doesn't feel quite the same. I'm worried... what can I do? Is there something wrong wtih me down there? Am I getting bored of my bf?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): I think youre mind as gotten used to a routine of certain stimulation and youve become used to it so it doesnt feel the same as before. This is normal I feel. Exactly, create some spice...add some music, wear some sexy heels while he's with ya, put on some sexy lotion glitter (I personally love that) ... also, maybe try some toys and go shoppin' for one together. However, stay away from porn as that can create jealousy issues and it can risk intimacy cause of the distraction to both parties. Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2010): try spice it up a bit with him try new places to have sex if he's still not doing anything for you or he doesn't respond try someone new
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