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writes:I just turned 41 and my husband just turned 37. We used to engage in sex alot but now there always seems to be something in the way. I love him to death and soetimes I just wanna give him oral pleasure just to make him happy but he rarely takes me up on that offer. i just love him so much and still continue to desire him all the time. He says he's tired or wants to relax but I would put everything aside to have sex with him. So what is really going on with him? BTW, he just turned 37 and I just turned 41 so I want to do it all the time and I kinda figured he would too at his age but I guess I' wrong again.
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 Try and back off and see what happens....maybe he doesnt want to feel pressured into always having sex i know it sounds silly but some men dont want it everytime there asked! Give him some space and let him come to you...im sure it wont be long before hes wondering why your not wanting sex all the time and he may like the chase!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 Hi,
It could be a number of things. He could be stressed out at work or have other personal issues he is not communicating with you - these can all affect your sex life.
Or it may simply be a case of you need to spice things up in the sex department. If you do have got into a routine in your sex life he may not be finding it as exciting as it used to be. So why dont you try a few new things, buy some sexy lingerie , or add a few adult toys into the mix.
good luck.
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