A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Aunts and Uncles, I have become a F-R-E-A-K and it does me no good. Like a lioness I bait and prey my on man constantly. He wants to nap and me, I go down on him until he has to give in to me. He's watching a show, I climb all over him. He walks around naked...well, the rest is history. Over the course of 8hrs, we've made luv six times, woulda been more if I didnt control myself! The last time, he got too tired to continue and collapsed. I wonder if he ever regrets taking my virginity...But, Aunts and Uncles, the big O (not Oprah) eludes me. I can feel it start, but then my man comes and its over. Hes not a minute man at all btw. And I need little to no foreplay, I'm ready to go at a touch! Yet I don't get enough time. I dont mind not coming but I'd like to experience it once. I wonder if theres some kind of product that helps? Maybe a pill? Something that accelerates orgasm? I'd hate to think that I need an hour+ for the O. Also, am I on him too much? I feel like the stereotypical hornball male!
View related questions:
foreplay, orgasm Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone! I'll try the suggestions...now, how to tell my bf? lol
A
female
reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (26 September 2010):
You said you have little or no foreplay at all because you are usually ready to go.But foreplay is where most women get their orgasms because they cant cum with vaginal sex.Your boyfriend should eat you till you cum before you have sex then you will be pacified.What the previous poster said is true:you cant get enough of sex because you dont orgasm.
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Thats why you want to keep going because you don't orgazm. Very simple explanation. Once you have an orgazm, job is finished. You wouldn't want to have sex for a while.
Very few women orgazm from intercourse. Most from clitoral stimulation. Ussualy oral sex helps a lot. Or fingers. But he needs to take his time. If you don't orgazm from intercourse its very natural and ussual thing. I know this feeling when it seems like its so close, and then it doesn't happen. Your man has to try other methods that i described, otherwise he has to work all day long, lol
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2010): Sounds you enjoy sex, that's better than reverse because it's an important point in a relationship (my opinion). Regarding big "O", do not care : it may take some time for you to experiment it, discover how your body works, and so on. Your partner may need some time to know you better too (how how is he ?).
So : be patient regarding O, it will come ;) Do NOT use drugs or anything reagarding this. That said : alcohol may remove some inhibitions, but you do not seem to need it. And err... some toys may be usefull to play with if your bf is tired...
Enjoy sex, it's part of life. Do not listen to aggressive advice (I am sure there will be here).
...............................
A
male
reader, Cupid Boy  +, writes (25 September 2010):
 You're not alone. I chatted with a girl before who said she wanted sex so much more than her partner that she practically had to rape him!
Well, after he's had his release, it doesn't need to end there. There's things he can and should do to help you get yours. Maybe you wouldn't be so randy if you got to finish once in a while.
...............................
|
