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writes: If a boyfriend has sex with his gf, does that means that he actually loves her a lot?They have sex only after one year in their relationship. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi all,
Thank you for your replies.
I am sure he loves me as we have waited for this special moment together.
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reader, KittieS +, writes (17 September 2011):
Hi
To answer in a bit more detail - have you been together for a year before having sex?
Is that due to religious beliefs or just that you waited for it to feel right for you both
The above questions make a big difference to the answer :)
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reader, chigirl +, writes (17 September 2011):
No, sex does not equal love. More often than not a man will have sex with a woman without loving her, or even caring for her. Women more often have sex when they want commitment and love, and men have sex for the pleasure of it.
That isn't always the case, but often that's the way it is.
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reader, mashftw +, writes (17 September 2011):
Some people see it as the next step or a big commitment they're making. Which can sometimes be very stressful for both parties. It honestly depends on the people and what their views are. If they are sharing this special moment together just because they've waited a year then so be it... but its not much different from claiming you love someone and having sex with them after a couple of months. Either one can be 100% genuine.
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