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writes:I feel like i'm being stupid here, most people for their first time worry about the sex part. Where as that doesn't scare me or make me feel nervous, I don't know why... but it's the part before that, the foreplay.I just don't know what I would do with the guy, like I know he'll know what to do but what can I do during foreplay for him? I mean, when my boyfriend and I even get close to foreplay I avoid my way out of it, because i'm nervous and I have no idea what i'm doing that I think he'll be put off! I don't want to ask him, I'd rather just know what to do or in fact I'd rather just skip that part and just have sex, has anyone else experienced that and what can I do? I just find it odd that that is the part that makes me nervous!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (17 September 2012):
 why do you think the guy will know what to do? he's as scared as you are if you are both first timers...they don't come with magic knowledge.
Foreplay is just that PLAY.... it's a chance to get to know your partner and their body...
you can't skip foreplay and have sex as you won't be ready... foreplay warms you up...
what part of kissing and necking and touching each other scares you?
or are you scared of giving or getting oral sex?
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