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writes:Hello. I am an undergraduate college student. I dated this guy in high school for 3 and a half years and we recently decided to take a break and meet other people. The last time I had sex with him was over Thanksgiving break since we go to different schools. He goes to school in New York and I go to school in Florida. He just came down to Florida for Spring Break and stopped by to see me. We had sex and it was very painful. It felt like he was pressing up against something inside of me. It also hurt pretty badly when he went very fast. It hurt a little to urinate afterward, and it hurt when I touched myself down there. I was wondering if anyone might know what is wrong with me. Is it just the fact that I haven't had sex in a while or is something seriously wrong with me? Thank you.
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reader, natasia  +, writes (22 March 2008):
 It sounds to me like maybe a couple of things:
- Could be that you had cystitis or thrush, both of which would make you more sensitive
- Could be that you haven't had much sex, and the friction and force of it (depending on how he did it) just hurt - it does sometimes
- Could be you have or had some other kind of infection that made you more sore
It sounds to me like he hadn't had sex in a while and went at it pretty strong and that just hurt. Very possible. And the feeling of him pressing up against something in you could have been the position you were in, and he could have been squashing your cervix/uterus. However, it's worth just going to the doctor and saying how you feel, and being given the once over. I'm sure you're fine and it was just a combination of factors, but if, eg, you've got thrush, you need some mild medication and it will be sorted out straight away.
I guess it's probably putting you off sex now, a bit, too, so worth putting your mind at rest! Good luck.
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reader, mastermale +, writes (22 March 2008):
go to a dr and ask for a check up - could be an std so yo'd be as well checking. this is especially relevant if you have had a few recent sexual partners
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