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writes: How do I get over my boyfriend touching me down there while we're having sex? I don't really get any physical feeling from sex unless he does but then I get squirmy of the fact that he can feel everything including hair or his... I am 20 years old and we have been dating for a year and a half. What can I do? thanks for any advice. =] Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, myfuture +, writes (13 May 2011):
myfuture is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wish we could do both of those things but we don't have our own place yet. :( But, good advice. =] Thanks a lot.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (11 May 2011):
Well maybe.. you two could just light a few candles and give each other massages. Get familiar with every nook and cranny. Intimacy is not just about sex. or get in the shower where you have less to focus on.
Learning to relax, to receive & give is not easy for everyone.
If there are places you RAHTER be touched TELL him or show him. Grab his hand and put it where you want it, rather then being uncomfortable with where it is.
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