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writes:Well im 15:) I have a bf of barely 2 weeks he is 15 too we have known each other for a long time.. We have liked each other since we met. We went out once it didn't work out but we still like each other we have had foreplay like fingering sucking licking but we haven't gona all the way cuz im scared of pregnancy idk what to do! He is a virgin tooCan you guys give me advise if you would have sex or not also what age did you girls or guys loose your virginityThanx everyone, I appreciate it.
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reader, Broken123  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 You shouldn have sex with him unless you love him and he loves you ... Like im 16 and i lost it when i was 15 yeah but you need to know that he loves you and wont leave you after .. Ive been with my boyfriend on and off for over 2 and a half years .. When you get the chance to do it with sumone you dont love it wont feel right ... Only do it if your ready .. Go on the pill to help prevent pregnancy .. But they can fail sometimes so make sure he uses a condom .. Even if your mates r doing it dont do it if your ready .. That jus makes ya seem easy .. So my advice to you is dont do it unless you love eachother and trust eachother 100% . I hope this helps you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): I gave mine up when I was 15 years old to my 15 year old virgin b/f. It was really weird and very innocent. We had no idea what we were doing and pretty much followed our body senses and it was great. Because we were new to the experience we could talk to each other if we didn't like a certain touch or if we liked it. Foreplay was enjoyed for hours with snack breaks in between before we decided to go all the way. I must admit that I fully enjoyed the experience even though we went our separate ways 6 months later but my first time experience beats roses on the beds with fire hazard candles lit every where lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): I was 14 when i lost mine and i have regretted it everyday. You haven't been with this guy long enough to lose your virginity to him. I was with my boyfriend for a month when i lost it, then 2 weeks later he cheated on me and left. I was heartbroken. Now i am in a stable relationship of two years and i so wish i had waited, because you feel a lot closer to that person after youve been together for long enough.
I would say wait at least 3 months before you have sex, then you will know hes in it for you and not just the sex. Foreplay is great for fooling around but dont forget the romantic side too. Sometimes just kissing and cuddling can make you feel awsome. Dont rush things because you may end up rejecting it. Hope this helps. x
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reader, jennieke  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 really,if he's a good friend don't risk it. Having im as a friend is mores important than having a bf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): Apart from the usual advice of DON'T, I also want to say, since you specifically asked for sex advice, that you can get virtually total satisfaction from having your clitoris stimulated.Vaginal penetration will be a great disappointment. You have around 8,000 nerve endings in our clit to excite you; about 8 in your vagina! What would you go for?Let him spend hours on your clit, but please don't forget the romantic side, too: you will enjoy it more and feel lots closer if you are kissing and cuddling too.He must attend to your needs first, as you will take longer to cum, but then service him with hand jobs and possibly blow jobs (NEVER blow, by the way!).Fondling and caressing should also play a large part in your activities and will bring you even closer.If you restrict yourselves to these activities you truly won't be missing out on anything and it will be safe. You can't get pregnant unless any sperm gets near your vagina - be ever so careful about that when playing.Oh, by the way, I exaggerated about there only being 8 nerve endings in your vagina, but not by very much......
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): I'm 19 and still (proudly) a virgin. I also have tons of friends (same age) with the same statement. I don't want that status to change. For me I want to wait til marriage as do my friends, but if you don't feel that's right for you don't you think you should at least wait until you know for certain the relationship is going to last, that you are in a solid relationship (like at LEAST a year) and you know a lot about the person besides the romantic side, or do you really want you relationship to be based around sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2009): I lost my virginity at 19 and I have regretted it ever since. The guy I lost it too was nice but when we broke up he moved on like he didn't even care. At the rate you guys are going, you might end up doing it anyway against all advice; so I recommend that you buy condoms and maybe even start reading up on the Pill. I hope you will be sensible and wait though. Two weeks is not long enough to know he is worthy of your virginity. If he really loves you, then he will wait until you have been together over a year. If you are going to be too easy, he will break up with you sooner after he has had his fill. Psychologists say that it takes 3 to 5 months for a guy to feel an emotional bond with someone; all the time before that, the attraction is only sexual and he can feel this for many different girls. I have a feeling you are going to be a very funny story in the boys locker room and he will hold the class record as the quickest to the finish line. He will be the envy of your friends at your expense. Good luck
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (12 December 2009):
 ...First, let me say you congratulation ! because, you know what you want. You want advice on sex. So far physical age is concern, you are categorized as 'immature', but so far intellectual wave length is concerned, you possess 'wisdom', desire to know about your doing. This is great.So, here is advice.1.Foreplay, is playing with 'sex organ'. It is not only perfect in sexual activity, but an ideal activity or more relevant word is 'play'2. Intercourse, means 'vaginal penetration through male sex organ'. It is when you need 'child', unless it is not needed, if 'pleasure' is the goal.3.Please remember and check also, it is only 'foreplay', lead you orgasm.
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reader, mamaof2 +, writes (12 December 2009):
 I was 13 when I first had sex and the first time I did I ended up pregnant. I have a son now and I wouldn't give him up for the world, but I wish I would have waited. I did finish school and everything but I never got to go with my friends to parties and I never got the chance to be a teenager. So I agree with redsox29 on don't have sex yet. Wait till you at least 18 or older. Foreplay isn't the best but stick to that till you are older.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (12 December 2009):
 First off, if you are in the United States, it's illegal to have sex at your age and I can't advise you to do something illegal.That said, yes it's fairly young to have sex, but if you trust him a lot and feel you are TOTALLY ready, I'd say just go for it. Make sure to use a condom, and put a drop of condom-safe lube at the very tip to decrease the likelihood of failure. Also, read up on how to properly put it on.My advice though before you do this is to thoroughly talk about it. Even if it's awkward, if you're not ready to talk about sex you're definitely not ready to have it.
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reader, redsox29 +, writes (12 December 2009):
DO NOT HAVE SEX! At 15 you are not ready. I know that you think you are mature enough and you care for him but really, you will regret it if you do. I waited till I was 18 and I wish I had held out longer. There is no need to rush this, just be young and stay with the foreplay, not that I'm advocating you to fool around, but sex is a huge step and most likely will be very disappointing for you. Be smart and save your virginity, it's a beautiful thing. If you throw it away at 15 I guarantee you will regret it.
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