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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i split up with my ex boyfriend over 3 years ago it was hard for both of us as we ran away from our feelings rather than stick together. weve always been close and we still see each other now and again, although when we do meet up we normally end up having sex. when this happens its like we revert back to when we were together and nothings changed, we act the same as we used to with each other. i have had other relationships since but ive been burnt badly in them and none of them lasted long and its the same for my ex. im so confused about what we are and dont know whether i still love him. do you think i should tell him what im thinking??????
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): You are just meeting up for sex with out the baggage of the relationship. Remember men are more physical and women are more emotional so you are suffering from the emotional side. You both KNOW that you'll end up sleeping together when you meet up so I suggest you stop meeting up. dont tell him how you feel as he will probably play on that! If you were supposed to be together you would be!!!I reckon you should stop meeting up and if he really wants you let him come after you. If he doesnt there is know use chasing him!!1Good luck!
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reader, arianawhiteside  +, writes (3 February 2009):
 I think you to should both meet up sometime and really talk. talk about how you feel toward him and ask him about his feelings. Figure out why you guys split up and why it wouldn't work out again. If you 2 truly still care a lot about each other and no other relationships work out with other people. Then you 2 should try being together again. Because if you find yourselves going back together then maybe you guys should give it another shot. Therefore you can also test your feelings and tell if you do still love him and see if the relationship was as good as it used to be. it may help. good luck =)
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