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writes:Me and (not real name, I can't call him bf all the time) Tony had sex last night. It was kinda strange... he was on his computer lookin up music for band. The song tony was looking at was really fast and sexy. He stood up and I pulled his tie and brought him closer to my face. We kissed and then he picked me up and took me to his bedroom. He took my clothes off then I got on the bed. He got on top and had sex. IT hurt.... is it normal? I never had sex before so is it normal? I mean he has a 7 inch penis but is it gonna hurt the first time? I told him "tony that hurts!" and he said I'm sorry but we had the perfect mood, and I'm scared that I killed the mood. but is it normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, sadgurlie04 +, writes (24 November 2008):
yes it is normal
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): yes the first time hurts! my first time i actually cried because it hurt so bad. just be more relaxing because once your muscles tense up it is a lot harder for the man to put it in you and the force of trying will hurt really bad. relax and take it slow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2008): it hurts women the first few times. i remember one ex-gf, she bled the first 4 times we had sex, and it hurt her 10-15 times after that. no biggie. just make sure you warm up and go slowly. and allow yourself a few days between sexual encounters, because if there's pain, then there's injury . . . and that needs to heal.
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reader, lah mouw +, writes (24 November 2008):
 If you've never had sex before... then yes, that's VERY normal. That just means that your hymen broke. So, don't go thinking there's something wrong with you, there's nothing to worry about! The more you have sex with your boyfriend, the more you'll get used to it and it'll start to feel good. It shouldn't hurt the next time you do it, but who knows, we're all different. To make it feel a little better, you can always try to do it slow and rhythmic and increase the speed when you get more into it. no need to worry!
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