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*oftballplaya
writes:hey everyoneI feel so terrible about myself right now. Well my bf was recently in a wreck I heard (at the time hes was ex) And his cousin texted me saying that he wanted to fix things with me and when he woke up she would tell him that I forgave him like I did. Well that morning he texted me in the hospital before they took his phone away and we were talking about getting back together. Well I was still unsure if he was really in a wreck and figured he was just ignoring me so I began talking to another guy. Well one thing lead to another and I sent him pictures of me in my bra and underwear. (yes I know Im very terrible) Well my bf texted me today saying he just got out the hospital and he got his phone back. I was so happy but I had to get rid of the other guy. He was very possessive and it scared me so I asked him to please leave me alone and then when that didnt work I asked my bf to text him and he did and the boy who i was talking to sent my pictures to my bf! Hes so mad at me and I know I deserve it. We are talking it out but Idk what to tell him or how to prove how sorry I really am!! I love him and I dont know why I did that to him but it was my first time messing up and I feel so disgusting and horrible for doing that to him. Please help!
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reader, softballplaya +, writes (2 August 2008):
softballplaya is verified as being by the original poster of the question we talked last night and he asked me how I care about him and I said more than anything. Id do anything for you and anything to make up for this and he said I'll take you back. We were texting when this happened but before we talked on the phone for about a half an hour. I guess he forgives me. Idk, but it would prolly be best if I left him alone for a while and let him cool off
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (2 August 2008):
Wow, you really didn't think that one through... What did you expect the psycho guy to do when your new boy texted him? Appologise and offer to buy you both dinner?
Never mind.
The thing is, that when you sent those pics, you weren't technically together. You were only talking about getting back together. I mean you didn't even believe that he was in a car crash! And it sounded like you were only getting back with him through pity / guilt because he was injured.
It was your own business what you did in that time and yes it was stupid to send some guy pics of yourself, but it was your choice.
Learn from this mistake. If your ex takes you back then great, if not then it really doesn't sound like a huge loss.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ClaireAndJamieXX +, writes (2 August 2008):
 Just tell your boyfriend what you told us if you havent already. Explain that you feel really stupid about the whole situation and regret it all also tell him that hes the one you have feelings for. If he really cares for you he should eventually forgive you but put yourself in his shoes and think about how this must make him feel. Be more careful in future as not many people believe in 3rd chances. Good luck xx
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