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30-35,
*razzylove135
writes:Hi, Personally i feel really weird asking these questions but they are driving me crazy!! I am a teen and as many people say am very self conscious about my vaginal area. I am in a relationship with a boy and i want to go the next level with him but i just need some advice.ThanksFirst, I know my labia is big and i hate it i feel like if he goes down there he will think i am gross and tell all his friends.Second, Should i talk to him about it i mean i just really want this relationship to work out and i don't want my privates to get in the way..How embarrassing.Third, So yea as you can see the thing that is bothering me the most is the whole large labia thing i want to be everything he wants me to be so a lot of advice will be thanked!Thanks You!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): Hey honey!
I fully understand how you are feeling, I used to feel the same too, my labia are really different sizes, ones really small and ones much bigger!
I can honestly say, tho, that no guy Ive ever been with even seems to notice it, and I asked my current bf if it bothered him and he said in the 2 years we'd been together that when he was down there, he was way too excited about other things to even notice what size labia are! And I think thats the way almost all guys are! And if that is enough to ruin your relationship, he isnt worth having.
I wouldnt mention anything about it before hand, and wait till you are both really into things and then let him touch you, he'll be way too excited to care I promise!
Hope everything goes well!!!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (30 September 2008):
 Firstly, if you are thinking of going to the next level, and you don't trust him to keep what is between the two of you private, that should be a huge red flag for you. A loving mate would never dream of talking about such intimate acts as if it were a notch in his bedpost. If you think that he could possibly treat you with such disrespect, and you are worried about this happening, then you are NOT at the stage in your relationship where you should be going any further. Don't fall into the trap of giving yourself in order to "secure" a relationship with him, he should want the relationship as much as you do, and be willing to wait until you are comfortable giving any part of yourself to him.
That's the most important part of my advice to you, Dear. As far as your body parts go, all females are a bit different and unique. The man who falls in love with you will like all of you - simply because it's you.
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