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Why is he ignoring me? We had sex but I want a relationship?

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Question - (30 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Ok here we go...

I met a bloke 2 weeks ago and he's a friend of my housemates. We all went out and got drunk one night and I let him sleep in my bed. One thing led to another and in the morning we had sex. He lives about an hour and a half away from me, but a few days later travelled to see me and we had nice chats and sex. Then, he came to visit me again and the same happened.

We texted everyday for a week and a half but now he's not replying to my text. He seems like a 'cheeky chappy' kinda guy and not someone I'd really want to have a realtionship with but even so i've got a soft spot for him. I don't know what to do, should I text him or leave it and how long should i wait?! Any ideas what he's thinking too? Thanks for any help.

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A female reader, blackberry008 United States +, writes (30 September 2008):

blackberry008 agony auntHe just went and visit you because he enjoys the sex romance you had together. But because he is full and had enough of you, he don't like it anymore.

I am sorry to say but this guy just message you or have a communication with you for the exchange to have sex with you.

Would you have sex with him anyway if he doesn't text you and suddenly just come to your place?

Well, he was tricking you.

Leave him. It is not healthy anyway. What you feel is not love. You just want him to love you because you had sex with him, that's all.

Go for a better one. Good luck.

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A female reader, mari1021 United States +, writes (30 September 2008):

mari1021 agony auntLeave it alone guys are jerks when you chase them they run and besides he might just see it as a casual sex thing and dosent want you to get to close.

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