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writes:my husband of 10yrs uses he/she websites.we have always had a problem in the bedromm, i am very active sexualy and he is not. he has never liked doing anything to me lower than my boobs, we went and stayed in a hotel, i took wine and lingerie we watched ordinary porn, but he did not rise to the occasion. ive reached a time in my life were i want a normal sexual relationship and am fedup of being frustrated, we have intercourse about once every two months, i'm desperate for answers because i want to leave him and find a life with love emotion and lots of sex. i dont know if he's gay or tran, he wont open up to me about it. we love each other, but i love him too much for him to carry on lying to himself, i want him to be free with his sexualality.
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reader, thrupence +, writes (5 March 2010):
thrupence is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi fiercebad rabbit, i have opened up and have tried and tried unsucesfully to get him to open up about this area in his life, his answer is always "i love you, and i'm only looking cos its wierd" but i don't buy it. i have a 9 yrold daughter, and it would break her heart. I have considered living together but in seperate rooms, because we are good friends, but having relationships outside of our home, until my daughter has gone through school. he has half agreed, but we have to do some alteration's in the hpouse for this to happen. i have also told him i would support him if he is gay or bi. I want him to be happy as well as i want this for myself. He is afraid that his family would be ashamed of him, as they are hard.
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reader, rena3312 +, writes (5 March 2010):
 He seems very gay, especially if he is into male porn. A real man who is attracted to a woman will be excited to please her orally and every other way in your womanly places!! It is what keeps a straight man going! You need to give him an ultimatum and seek counselling over this and tell him how you feel, because it is not fair to you that you should be deprived sexually for his sexual issues. He wants you for the comfort and companionship, but not willing to satisfy or desire you sexually is not what a relationship is about. I dated a man for five years who had some homosexual tendencies, but I wasnt sure if he was. He never wanted to hold my hand or kiss me. I finally stopped wasting my time and started dating other men, and I found out that I was very desirable and the sex was great! If it isnt there...the answer is obvious. He is gay and just wants your companionship. You need to move on away from him before you waste any more years in your life unhappy and unsatisfied. Best Wishes!
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