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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: Hi there i was just wondering if its normal to be in a relationship but be attracted to someone else?this might sound stupid but im quite worried about it.Im actually in love with another guy,Although i cant let go of my boyfriend, please help me? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (10 April 2013):
you are very very young to tie yourself down to one boy especially if you are not sexual at this point (and I hope you are not)
Being in love with one person does not mean you don't find other people attractive.... there is nothing wrong with that.
I often say "I'm married not dead."
it's what you do with the attraction that matters.
if you are partnered, you do NOTHING.
if you feel you can't stop thinking about the other person and it's impacting negatively on you or your relationship, then you must break up with the boyfriend as cheating on him is not acceptable.. no emotional cheating or physical cheating...
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female
reader, NORA B +, writes (10 April 2013):
Yes its very Normal at your age to be attracted to other guys or in fact at any age .There must be something special about your bf as you want to stay with him .Young love is special so be gentle with yourself Kind Wishes Nora B.
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