A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hi everyone.I have liked this guy for awhile now. I thought he liked me. He texted me out of the blue last night and said something lame to me. So I thought maybe it was his way of trying to start a conversation and contact me. Good signs or so I thought. So I texted back and told him I was having a bad day and sorry to bother him about it. He replied don't be sorry and see you tomorrow. He did not bother asking me why I had a bad day or if there was anything he could do to help. He just ended the conversation like that.I just need everybody to tell me it is obvious that he has no feelings for me at all and that I need to move on. Honestly that reaction really hurt me deeply. It told me he didn't even care enough about me or our supposed friendship to ask me what was wrong. Am I right to be this upset?Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): I do not think it is immature to try and spare yourself the pain of getting your heart broken. I also do not think it is immature to want to know where you stand.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): What this tells me is that you are too immature to have a relationship with this man. Suggestion is that you grow up a little and then try again.
Men hate the way some women over analyse everything in the world!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): I'm the OP.
I did not see him today because I cancelled out.
Yet he has not once contacted me - and he has every way of contacting me - to ask me if I am maybe upset with him, or if I am okay or why I had a bad day yesterday.
Now this is telling me something, right?
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): wow ... this is a problem? you are just over reacting to nothing at all.
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