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*omof4wifeof1
writes:My partner of 5 yrs has been wonderful,he's a great dad and even a great partner,however just bout a week ago, he decided to "claim his own space"with a account with a website...not porn. I tried to make him realize we shouldnt have secrets(he doesnt want me messing around in his accounts so he's password protected it) i have in the past given into my woes and looked in his email..yrs ago,and he has never given me reason before this to worry. Sad thing is, when he tells me he isnt cheating, i believe him..but there are things that would make someone at least wonder,i need him to know that secrets just damage a relationship,not protect his space...
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (23 June 2007):
 From what you say, I don't think you should worry about his cheating or something. Maybe he's just telling the truth: he wants some "space" of his own, some interest you don't share and he wants to have for himself.
Secrets sometimes do damage relationships. But, sometimes, the need to know everything is damaging, too, as he might think that you don't really trust him in spite of how he is to you.
If you had any other signs, maybe I would worry; but, from what I know, nothing is going on.
Hope this helps.
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