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Secret boyfriend, what to do???

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Question - (13 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend, but i have one anyway, and the whole school knos(except those who really think they already kno it all) even the secret part, and even if i was my parents think he's a man-whore, as do a quarter of my friend population. he asked out a girl a week after he asked me out the 1st time, he broke up w/ his gf an hr. later, when i said no b-cuz my parents, but she was taken(p.s i would have done the same thing.)like a mo. later he asks again and even my concience is saying, 'screw ur parents this guy is 'him'' so i have 2 questions. 1-is he a scumbag or should i trust him and 2 am i gonna get caught?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010):

i only said a quarter of m friend list, the other 75% trusts me to make my own

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2010):

1) If none of your friends trust him then yes, he is a scumbag, he also finds you a challenge since your parents say no, and you told him that and he asked you again...shows a disrespect to you. 2) Will you get caught-yes.

Do I think you are too young to have a boyfriend? Probably. Why do you want one? At your age it is more fun to have many friends of both sexes, people to talk to and hang with...without any pressure to be something more.

This is the time of your life to enjoy being a kid. there are many many more years ahead for you to be in a relationship and to limit your options. Usually that happens when you are thinking of settling down to marry in the future....don't you think you are a long way off from that? You aren't even in high school yet....so relax about he whole boyfriend thing, it isn't a status symbol or a sign you are grown up.....people just wonder Why?

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