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writes:ok so i'm 17 and sex for the first time about 2 months ago. kind of towards the end of november beginning of december and it hurt like hell. Tonight i had sex again with the same guy, it was my 2nd time and it hurt WAYYYYYY worse than my first time. Is this normal? and will my 3rd time be worse than my 2nd time? Reply to this Question
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reader, GodJudgesAll +, writes (3 January 2011):
Every thing Aunt Honesty said :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 Ok so it does hurt losing your virginity. My guess is that after the first time you remembered the pain and therefore your body clammed up which can make trying to have sex more painful. It can be uncomfortable for a few times but you need to make sure you are relaxed or else it is just going to hurt.
Just make sure that there is plenty of foreplay and that you feel horny and wet. Maybe use some luberication if it helps you as this will make it easier for him to enter you. Also tell your partner to be gentle with you to start of with.
Goodluck.
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