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writes:Hey this goes with my other ? I get very jittery when guys get too close. And not the good kind either I hate it I get shaky and want them to leave me alone and I get actually kind of scared.(I'm glad I'm now in a good serious relationship and he knows not to even try)any way I know for a fact I'm not a lesbian! So that possibility is ca-put any way does any one else have this problem? I'm happy with staying completely..... I don't know pure I guess would be the word for nothing going on down there. But I'm fine with that I just don't understand why it is so freaky to me (btw I'm 14 if that helps....?)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2009): yea i'm pretty much the same way...so many HOT guys try to come on to me...like jsut as friends, and i get scared and back away...i don't flirt, and i have lost alot of chances with really great guys...i'm pretty sure i am not a lesbian...i wonder allll the time..i duuno, maybe i am...but i wish i could get over this "fear"? ... i would have such a better life.. im almost 20, im fucked!
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reader, StudentOfLife  +, writes (20 February 2009):
 It might be because you don't know guys enough.
Just like scary movies, it looks scary at first but once you know how they made the scary part, it's not so scary anymore.
It can be due to self esteem, I know for a fact that I was a confused fellow when I was your age. I still am, but it's more controllable after a while.
Action conquers fear every time. If you're scared of something, you'll find it less scary the more you experience it.
Hope it helps :)
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