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writes: got a guy who i absolutely adore, im not some silly teen but a 41 yo mum of 1 and hes 43. both divorced. since my divorce 3yrs ago ive dated but not let myself fall for anybody prefering to focus my life around my son whose 9yo.but this guy....wow!! totally fell for him to the extent that id give up everything if he asked. never ever in my whole life felt like this before for anyone, except that motherlove rush when you look at your child.anyway, he was the first to say i love you a few weeks ago and was texting and phoning all the time, spent the whole of xmas and new year with me and my son at our home. then 2weeks ago at a party of my friend i got very drunk and made a few revelations about my past that with hindsight i should've kept to myself.he went all quiet for a day then i asked if we could talk and he said he's fine now he's got his head round it all. so why do i feel like theres a barrier between us? he still texts and phones as often, still see him as often but ...maybe it's me and my imagination. he says i" think too much " when i try to discuss this "barrier". please help, did i blow the first good relationship of my life? i don't touch alcohol at all now & trying so hard to keep meself together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2005): good luck to you. Must have been a terrible secret to cause you to worry so much about it. Feel glad its out in the open. If you cant be honest and open in a relationship, whats the point ? The first intense rush of love is bound to settle down as you get to know each other better.
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