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writes:Yesterday, on May 4, 2007 my friend was killed.She was sitting on a fence at a baseball field when her sister stupidly pushed her over. She landed on her neck and broke her neck. She died at the scene.And now because of her death her twin sister will have to live in regret for the rest of her life. Reply to this Article
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reader, *ANGEL*  +, writes (11 May 2007):
 This is a really sad story.
Sorry about what happened to your friend but I doubt that she twin did it intentionally coz Im a twin myself, But then again I dont know how their relationship was.
I pray her soul rests in perfect peace.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2007): Sweetheart, this is so very terrible and I can not imagine what her sister is feeling. She will never get over it and is just as much a casualty. She probably wishes it was her that died. All I can say is that this life is not the end. I am not religious in the usual sense, but I know beyond doubt that we move on together to the next thing. She should know that her sister would tell her that she is forgiven if she could. All she has to do is get through this life the best way possible. Maybe that will be helping other people through their own tragedies. She needs to find a way forward that will make sense of this and use her pain, loss and experience in a meaningful way. Then she will be able to believe that there was a reason for what has happened and she will know that her sister would approve. I hope this helps, because there is really not much else that I can say. Huge love to you all.
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reader, in my opinion +, writes (7 May 2007):
 im sorry for your loss but as you say her sister stupidly pushed her. and yes she will have to live with that last memory for the rest of her life. im sure it wasnt intentional, all you can do is be there for her, im sure she is as upset as you if not even more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2007): Hi there,
I am so sorry to hear about your friend. It sounds like your friend's twin sister will have to overcome the belief that she is to blame for her sisters death. Maybe she can do this, maybe she won't. It sounds to me that this was a tragic accident. She didn't purposely set out to kill her sister, did she? These tragic accidents just sometimes happen. We all do things that have some amount of risk in them but if we always thought about what could happen, we'd be too scared to leave our houses. And you should be careful about your use of words - your friend was not killed - she died in an accident.
The loss of a friend can be really troubling. I lost one of my close friends five years ago and it is still something that saddens me today. But good can come from the death of a death like this, it can inspire you to live a happy life and promise yourself you will make the most of things and live the things that your friend missed out on.
You all need to keep together, be strong, and remember your friend in a good way. Whatever you want to believe about what happens to her now is up to you, but think about how badly her sister must be feeling and be there for her. She of all people will find this the hardest thing to ever get over but just ask yourself - did she intend to have this happen? Of course she didn't - so take care of her and things for all of you will start to feel better soon.
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reader, misrable +, writes (6 May 2007):
 I pray for the sister, and hope she never reads what you have wrote, you said your friend was "killed" i dont think it was a killing, it was two sisters having fun when a terrible accident happened, be there for the sister because as you said she will live with this forever and she will need comfort and support to get through this tragady. remember that even though you are hurt and sad, God called her home and there is nothing you could have said or done to stop it.
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