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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh im up to par with my testing and all that stuff... im clean happy n healthy... I kickd him to the curb... im gonna miss his kids tho very much... I always wanted kids and almost had one with him... but when things don't work out ..theres nothing else to do but walk away seeing as I takes 2 to work things out n Im all out of energy and tears...
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionoh.. and why do I feel like its wrong for him to bring his kids around and get attached to me if he isn't serious about me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell by commit I mean be exclusive.. Our relationship started out when he told my mom that he was interested in me before I even knew he liked me... I never saw him in that way but he was very nice and respectful and I've been burned so bad before in a previous relationship ... initially he seemed ready for a relationship since it had already been 9 months since the split of his 14 year realationship before... but as time went on there was less PDA ...then we stopped going out places and eventually the only time I would see him was on the weekends he had his kids... now however I spoke with him and let him know after I drop off the christmas presents I got for his kids I don't want anymore contact with him cause this situation has turned into a twisted game that I can't seem to wrap my head around... Its a shame cause I've expressed in everyway possible without desperation (of course) that I have so much love and room in my heart for him and his kids and still nothing..
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2009): he seems confused to me... wait little while longer and see what happens ...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (24 December 2009):
Perhaps he's been very hurt in the past. How did it work out with ex? Or even worse, perhaps you're nothing more than a trophy girlfriend to him. Could do with a bit more information if possible.
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