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writes:My exbf broke up with me in early Dec. We live an hour away, he hadnt had a GF since his last 3 years ago and thought he was ready. Well he wasnt. Said wanted to keep in touch hang out occasionally and if it works out get back together eventually..Well since then we have hung out a few time as friends. Last time I saw him he found out I had been seeing someone else. Told me we could not be friends. Then less than 2 weeks later said that he thought it over and thinks we could. We talk almost daily. I wrote him an email asking him if he still had any feelings for me. Never wrote me back but talked to me the next day like normal. What does this mean? I know he got the email. Does he have feelings or not.. and if not why would it be so hard to write that back in an email? I would rather know than not know. Thanks for your advice
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reader, wildman +, writes (1 March 2008):
 Sounds to me babe that he just wants to keep you on the hook while he is looking for someone else. That way he isn't totally alone, but doesn't have to make a real commitment either. If you really think you love him you might want to make a strong effort now and see what happens. I think in person is the best way and leave out the emails. Emails are uncomfortable for some people I believe. good luck, john
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (1 March 2008):
 well instead of waiting around for a reply, just ask him! i mean you talk to him and meet up with him, so why cant you just say it to him in person? do you still have feelings for him? if you do then ask him , if you dont then i dont know why you emailed him in the first place. if you dont love him then why does it matter so much to you? talk to him and tell him wat it is exactly that you want from this relationship.
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