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Russian dating for beginners!

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Article - (7 October 2009) 2 Comments - (Newest, 23 November 2009)
A age 51-59, writes:

The best way to find a Russian bride to marry is to join a Russian dating service. Getting to know and communicating with have their own internet connection and are themselves looking for Western men to date with. Russian girls have already registered on many Russian dating services. Some are free and some are paid services. Some of the larger popular Russian dating site have many thousands of girls looking for marriage, you will find it very easy to sign up on one of these sites, and often you can chat online to Russian girls straight away. Most Russian brides speak and write English a little bit as it is usually taught as a second language at school, so communication should not be too much of a problem.

There are many Russian agencies on the Internet which provide the convenient way for Western men to seek Russian women. The best way to search for some is in Google. Russian mail order brides are different from singles online. International brides who get married with Western men are called mail order brides, however this is just a name that has arisen over the last decade, many women would feel offended being called a mail order bride, and rightly so! You do not buy her in a catalogue and have her delivered to your doorstep by mail.

Russian brides are very keen to marry a Western man. Do you know why? because they do not want to get married with Russian men, Russian men have a history of cheating on their wives and are often abusive, as well as it is a common fact that Russian men drink a lot, Russian women want a stable family to bring their children up in with a man they know will treat them with some respect. Another reason many Russian girls look to Western men is the female/male ratio in Russia, there are 12 million more women in Russia so finding a good man is in fact not such an easy task for any Russian girl and this is why many sign up to Russian dating sites.

In general if you join a Russian dating site it is a good idea to be communicating with several girls at the same time to start with, and she will be doing the same with several guys, this is just normal, and even happens on dating sites in the West as you need to be sure of each other and build up some trust, she will want to be sure you are a serious man looking for marriage and not just some fun and a few days casual relationship, and you will want to be sure she is serious and not just wanting free travel and gifts, so it is some work on both sides. It is a big decision for both of you so you will want to be very sure you want to become married. Russian women are very beautiful and you must be sure to let your brain rule your decision and not fall hopelessly in love with the first Russian women you meet, remember Russia is full of beautiful women.

So if you are single and thinking of searching for a Russian bride then now is a good time it has never been so easy with the help of the internet, it is very easy to sign up to a Russian dating site and be on a plane to Russia within a few weeks to meet some Russian girls, why wait, take action now and you may soon be with your dream partner and the envy of all of your friends.

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A male reader, tux United States +, writes (23 November 2009):

tux agony auntI will say one thing about the 1 answer in this thread.. it is unfortunate that your father found a bad seed, but do keep in mind that there may still be good seeds in the bunch that truly are looking for love or just someone to be with and not necessarily money. Though online datings services of all kind can be a bigger breeding ground for such activity, but the problem is that your father could have met someone in real life that could have ended the same way.

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A female reader, peppermall United Kingdom +, writes (24 October 2009):

Hello, after reading your article I would like to explain my story of the Russian Bride.

I am 19 and in Feburary 2009 my father passed away at the age of 63. In 2006 he met a woman named Viktoria from Tibilsi Georgia, in Febuary 2006 on a dating website. She was 30years old (30yrs younger than my father) and surposily a virgin. They met twice in total 3 weeks before she came over to England on a UK fiancee visa. Unfortually they married in December 2006 in complete secret with only her mother as a witness, and she was living here untill my father passed away.

When she was living here, she lied to my father about her mother having breast cancer, in the last 2 years he transfered about £20,000 over to her mother by Western Union. She Didnt work, never paid for anything and she puushed me and my two brothers from the family home to look after ourselves while i was only 16 at the time.

My father had a will, everything to be given to his children, there is four of us. However since he wasnt informed by his solistors who helped him get her in this country (3 visas were denied as they stated she was only her for finacial gain) he didnt update his will and now English Law steps in and the wifes are entitled to the late husbands estate. In a normal family where the mother is still with the father of the children or other way round it wouldnt be a problem as the mother naturally would provide for her children. Since we rarely even spoke to this woman she hasnt even considered us.

She has said on many occassions that she is only here for finacial gain. We his children do not desearve anything from him and that we were ungratful and he didnt want us to have anything from when he died.

He has over 1 million pound worth of a estate and now cause of this little mistake of marrying such a evil woman everything he has worked for his whole life is going to this woman. Not his children his blood relations.

I strongly am against these gold digging Russian wives. They are con artists and they are out to steal as much as they can from lonely vunerable men.

If you are reading this and considering meeting up/ marrying one please think through what I have said.

Its now 8 months since he has died she didnt even come to funeral, she wasnt able to phone ambulance when he was having a heart attack as she stated she had a headache. We are waiting for her to come and kick us out the house we have lived in since I was 6 years old, waiting to sell all his property and then walk away with all our inheritance and basically making us all homeless and left with nothing. Even though we are of age to fend for ourselves he always said the reason why he work so hard is for his children so they can have a jump start in life like what his parents did for him.

And the sickening thing is, we have no say what so ever.

This is were the English government fails English citizens.

Dont fall for the 'innocent virgin' woman of Russia, they are all conartists playing a waiting game. She only had to wait 2 years and is now walking away with about £750,000.

And the sickening thing is I honestly dont understand how she can live with herself leaving four children with no parents and my fathers last two years as a complete lie. All because she took advantage of a lonely man.

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