New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Russian dating facts

Tagged as: Dating<< Previous question   Next question >>
Article - (2 October 2009) 0 Comments - (Newest, )
A age 51-59, writes:

So you have decided you can find the right women on the net, and have been doing a little research into Russian brides, what made you believe that you can find the right woman on the net? Today there are hundreds of Russian dating websites offering matchmaking services. Some are very successful, so maybe you have been thinking of trying one and having a chance to change your life.

Russian brides has become a popular search phrase in the last few years many men have jumped onto the “Russian brides “ bandwagon. Many people share experiences in the dating forums, telling stories of either a very successful relationships they managed to start with the help of a Russian dating site or a bad experience with Russian women who has trying by all means to hang on to them and use them as a tool to get away from their native country and have a better lifestyle.

Sure there are many women who will take advantage of their sex and good looks; they know only too well many men desire a Hot Russian bride. They are pretending to be looking for a real relationship but all they actually want is marriage which will allow them to stay in a western country and live the life style they have dreamed of.

Some women after having a visa and a short time in her new country will look for a new partner which will suit their needs better, you should always keep this in mind when searching for a Russian bride, although it is only a small minority you have just as much chance of meeting a “gold digger” on any western dating site.

On the other hand, Russia is the biggest country in the world and there are thousands of true Russian women looking for real love and romance with a western man, many Russian dating sites try extremely hard to filter out any fake women joining their sites. And will carry out scam tests to check the women, it is not in the dating agencies interest to have fake girls in their websites.

Now you will understand how the term "mail order bride" arose. For most Russian woman, or whether she be Russian, Ukrainian or any other nationality, the term “Russian bride” is very degrading. It compares them to something you would buy in a catalogue and have delivered to your doorstep.

Well I have some interesting news for all men searching for a Russian bride. Finding and dating a real Russian woman is a big challenge these days, the promise of life in the “land of milk and honey” of the UK or the USA or most of Europe is no longer what it used to be, all Russian women have access to the internet now and have come to realize life is not so great in the West as they thought. Many men in the West still have the wrong idea of Russia and some still believe it snows all year and all women are pheasants waiting to be rescued by a man from the West, if you are one of these men you had better do some research fast!

Russian dating sites have improved considerably over the years and many offer fully interactive communication with your future bride. Modern Russian dating sites know that Russian scams are actually ruining their reputations and try to do their best to prove that their business is real and offering a good service to members.

Before starting your Russian mail order brides search – you should think exactly what you are looking for and why. Men sometimes are searching for a bride in Russia just for the thrill to meet a lady who is different to what he is used to at home they just seek a few days holiday in a foreign country with a Hot Russian bride and expect sex to be thrown in.

Truth of the matter is that there are many beautiful women out there with true feelings, they are not interested in a short tem romance or a one night stand. Russians are not pretty Matrioshka dolls which you take home after your annual holiday. These women are hoping that you might be the one who will treat them well, respect them and make them feel loved. If you are just looking for a short term fling or romance you should make it clear from the start.

Wanting to marry a Russian women is a big step. Even though it will be a big challenge to you, there are many examples of successful relationships between Russians and foreigners. All you should do is read between the lines during your correspondence, and try to do some research into Russian life and culture.

This article is written by Stefan Hendrick, who met his love in Russia and decided to move there, where he now runs his own Russian dating site.

View related questions: one night stand, the internet

<-- Rate this Article

Reply to this Article


Share

You can add your comments or thoughts to this article

New answers are blocked to this question

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0312349000014365!