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writes:a little while ago, my boyfriend thought that we should start doing the whole role playing in bed thing. it sounds fun and all, but what if it starts to become akward? i also tend to space out, my mind goes blank, and im only paying attention to the pleasure during sex. im also a little worried that while in the middle of sex i space out and forget that we are role playing. i need some tips now!!!!! we get some time alone 2 weeks, and he is really looking forward to this, hell, hes probably writing scripts by now! i dont want to ruin our time together! Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball +, writes (14 February 2011):
 Nothing wrong with getting lost in the throws of pleasure, at least not in my book. It's always good if you don't break character, but if you can't think straight, then just tell him how much you enjoy what he's doing.
I always find it's better not to worry about "what if's" until they actually come along, so I wouldn't worry about the possibility of things getting awkward. Just have fun with each other, that's what matters.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (14 February 2011):
 Whats wrong with the way you react? If you space out and enjoy the sex then isn't that just the purpose of the roleplay to begin with? To have great sex?
Don't worry so much, just tell your boyfriend he gives you so much pleasure you want to enjoy it as well, so if you zone out and forget your lines then it should be fine. If he wants acting sessions instead of sex he can join a theater. This isn't on-stage, this is sex. You're supposed to enjoy it, not freak out because you forgot your lines...
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