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bobby's Girl
writes:Leah learned great methods of harassment by using a website called "HOW TO GET REVENGE ON YOUR EX" Leah couldn't cope with an ended relationship, a relationship that was over for years before Bobby and I began our relationship. So instead of moving on like any other women would do, Leah harassed, tormented and stalked, and played various sick minded gamesLeah recently posted a video of me with a recording of my voice which was a conversation I had with her, after she played one of her crafty thought out game, of deceiving me to believe bobby was cheating on me with her. I feel into it as I done before, she’s so good at manipulation.I believed her and broke up with bobby for the 50th time. And when she called me that night, she spoke to me as a friend and I in return did the same. yet Leah was recording me along, and the very next day, I realized it was another one of her games, because my phone conversation I had with her was used to harass bobby all day, she kept calling him over and over again playing parts of my conversation, of course the parts where I’m upset with him.These time of mind games went on for an entire duration of bobby and I relationship and still till this day go on, I can never understand why she doesn’t stop and move on with her life, but from what I gather, it has nothing to do with a broken heart, or even bitterness and revenge. Leah I truly believe is delusional and ill. I’ve come in contact with others who knew her for years; even family members have said the same. Bobby and I don’t know how to stop it, and trust me, we’ve been to the police, and they can’t do anything, unless she threatens our lives, in which she to cleaver to do. Leah sick game includes, various non-criminal ways of tormenting one. 1. TEXTING:She would send me a text message having me believe that Bobby sent it to her. The text would say I love you or you make me so happy, something mushy like that, and on text message it would have forward on it. So it would make you think he did send it to her. It wasn’t till I realized that each time she did this, I would accusing him of this and breaking up with him and in return bobby would be devastated and crying pleading his innocents, and then after numerous times of this same occurrences I realized, why would bobby send her texts like that, knowing she’s going to forward them to me, why would he go through the trouble.2. SPOOFING-goggle it, it does exist and is very, very easy to do, all you need is a computer, you can spoof a landline number or a cell. Leah used it to have others believe that I was calling and harassing her. Now let’s think about this. If I’m going to call someone to harass them, I wouldn’t reveal my name and number on their caller id, there is this thing called *67. Everyone knows about that. What ass would display there name and number if there going to call and harass someone and turn around and deny it.FACT: You can’t trace someone who’s spoofing you, but if your being spoofed, you can easily prove yourself innocent by showing your landline and cell records, it will list all your outgoing calls. This information comes from FCC3.ONLINE BASHING;This hurt the most ,not only because of the disgusting, vulgar distort lies she made up about bobby and I but she included my 12 year old daughter in her crude,tasteless, made up stories. Leah knows every online bashing website there is, and god knows she posted us everywhere.I can’t even begin to write the disgusting words and fictitious stories she posted about bobby and I .Just goggle our names,to think only a year ago, nothing would of posted if you goggled my name and now, I can’t even bare to read what’s written, to look at posted pictures of me, or to hear my voice. All because of that evil, sick hag, who’s filled with rage.I had ignored Leah’s online bashing for a year know, and gave her the option two weeks ago to stop all her methods of harassment towards me and Bobby or I will expose what she has done. Leah prefers to continue her wicked ways. So with that choice she has made, I have no other option to speak the truth side by side her lies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2009): For starters this barnpot "Leah" shouldnt even have your phone number.You should know better than to fall for her lies. God only knows why you havent gathered enough evidence to press charges of harrasment. I see your in USA so i dont know what the letter of the law is there but i'm sure there has got to be laws against this kind of behavioure.I wouldnt try getting your own back online if i were you. I doubt if you will win and you wont half bore the pants off those who have to read that kind of crap.
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reader, Phsyciatrist-to-be  +, writes (18 August 2009):
 Jesus Christ... that's one messed-up woman.
I too, am extremely impressed with how you and bobby have held on to each other. I'm surprised the police didn't take more of an interest in this: I was under the impression you could take people to court for this sort of thing.
You could try getting different phones? New numbers, perhaps? Then at least she might be unable to do the texting thing.
I'm sorry I can't be of more help. Samantha x is right: it won't go on forever! Just keep going! With any luck, Leah will get so wrapped up in her schemes that she won't notice the bus until it hits her.
Keep fighting!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): This must be awful for you, and exhausting. It is amazing how this girl cannot move on. However, I admire your strength through all this, and I am pleased that you are still with Bobby.
I have had a similar thing happen to me, when a guy couldn't move on. I was harassed for a year, as we went to the same college. It only ended when I left. He tried to turn everyone against me by spreading horrible lies, and he would text me, write to me, follow me around...trying to intimidate me, and he would even get threatening.
So you are not alone, please believe that. I don't know what makes people go to these lengths. Perhaps you are right. Maybe this girl really is deeply troubled, and needs help. I guess she must need help, as this is clearly not normal behaviour.
I think all I can really say here is, carry on being strong. This must be so difficult for you. But you know the truth, and even though this girl tries to make up stories and lies about you, I am positive other people know what she is up to, and take little notice of it. There is always two sides to every story, and people know that.
It must be terrible when nothing can be done about this girl. I know this is easier said than done, but try not to let her affect your life, or your relationship. Maybe try to think to yourself, "She is just not well, it isn't personal". She is clearly stuck, don't let her hold you back as well.
I sincerely hope that a resolution to this situation presents itself soon. Until then, carry on with your life. This won't go on forever, so stay strong through this. And thankyou for sharing your story. xx
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