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*indseysmom
writes:hi, i have been married for 2 years. i am bi-polar and my husband is an alcoholic, although he denies it. he has cheated on me 3 times, twice with his ex-wife and one time with a friend of ours. I find myself not trusting him, or respecting. i feel repulsed when he hugs me or kisses me. We argue a lot. Should I rebuild my marriage, or follow every instinct in my body and ask for a divorce? please help me, I am so confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): Life is too short to not be happy. Cheating even once is not excusable...and three times in 2 years displays a profound lack of desire to make the marriage go. I guess you offered up you were "bi-polar" and he was "an alcoholic" as some sort of rational to why all this was happening but they are just excuses. I hope both of you are seeking medical help and all the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): If your religious beliefs will cause guilt with divorce-by all means, work on it.
Otherwise, run like hell!
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