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writes:I was in a realtionship for 2 1/2 yrs, it was wonderful, till he started looking for a old ex of his, someone he had a baby with 35 yrs ago, they never made contact since then as it ended badly, about 10 months ago he found her now they are "best of buddies" but 1500 miles apart, about 6 months ago I found out he had STD/Herpes, he also has not told any of his other relationships in the past 7 yrs of this as well, since I found out things had not been the same I had trust issues after that, he had been emailing and texting ex's and lying about it...he said he wasnt but I saw he was, how can he lie so freely and have no remorse for his actions? I did not contract his disease, but I am having such a hard time getting over this, I dont know how to move forward, trust, it has been a month now and the pain will not go away, I feel betrayed and yet I really miss him. He is one that goes through women every few years, I am not. Need good advice here....
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): It seems as he was not good enough anyway. Just move on. Go to the gym. Go for a walk. Got o see movie with freinds. Just do not look around for another relationship yet. Just enjoy yourself. Relax. We all have been there. You will get over it and you will be happy that you are not with him anymore. Be happy that you did not get his STD from him. Consider yourself very lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): any ex is hard to get over. My ex also messed me around and went back to her ex. I personally have not found anyone yet but im not worried. As people on here will probably tell you. Make time for yourself first before you go looking for someone else. When you meet someone good you Will know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2011): He seems like he can't be trusted and that he is a womaniser, my advice is to find someone nice who also wants a long term relationship and that will always be honest with you.
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