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male
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30-35,
*ohn_T
writes:Hello! I need some serious advice. My ex-gf and I dated for about 4 years. In December of this past year she broke up with me because she needed some "space." We ended up getting back together after about a month. Things afterwards were better than ever! Now, about 7 months down the line, she breaks up with me again and tells me that she is "confused" as to what she wants. Anyway, it has been about 1.5 months since the break up and I have giver her all the space in the world. Not a single text, call, email, nothing. Last night, though, we went out for the first time since the break up. We went out to eat. We were flirting, laughing, kissing, holding hands, calling me baby, the whole nine yards. She even looked me in the eyes and told me she loved me and saw herself marrying me (we wanted to get married in about 2-3 years). The thing is, despite all what was said and done, she still told me that she is confused as to what she wants. That maybe we will end up dating again or not, but that she doesnt know. And regardless of her having a lot of fun with me, she doesnt want to go out TOO much because then it will just confuse her even more. I really do love this girl, and I would like to get her back. I haven't spoken to her since I dropped her off last night because I don't know how to approach the situation. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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reader, MikeEa1  +, writes (24 July 2010):
 missdimples3 is pretty right except for one thing. a girl doesn't often go with the one she picks up and puts down and picks up again. you're not "the one"
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reader, missdimples3 +, writes (24 July 2010):
 she needs you but she don't want you, she misses you but she's not sure if she wants you back yet! I think you been giving her a lot by just doing what she wants n being there for her when she needs you! but its not fair... I say you need to talk to her. tell her exactly how you feel. this is hard cuz I am feeling the same way she's feeling. when we don't know what we want its really hard to control it. its not like we know what we want over a night but I think you should talk to her tho. take it out! but try to do it face to face.. so ask her out again! or just surprise her. show up at her door step with a flower n ask to talk to her :)! good luck i know I didn't help much. but I don't think I would be the best to give you this advice!
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