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writes:hi any one tell me there experiences of rejection so i wont feel like the only who has rejected million times in row.my experience of rejections leaves me thinking that all guys in the world are jerks for some reason or another. i feel very left and alone. why is it jerks always find some one even though they've treated other girls like pieces of dirt? I don't understand that at all. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): i got dumped on a few month ago and even now he wont talk to me all the times he rejected me and i forgave him,but now i just see him as a sad prick as he still stuck in the past and i have moved forward and got myself a guy who aint nothing like him
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): ha ye men really are jerks but im gonna try be optimistic and say surely they're not all like that!
my problem is i always go for men that always have more important priorities than me, i also always end up with stoners for some reason!
but seriously if we think that they're all jerks thats the only ones we are going to notice! i suppose the more we're with the easier it will be to avoid them?! naaa they're all pricks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): orginal post:
i like always hate guys because always boooting about there past girlfreinds and kissing other girls in front of me and always lockerroom talk,ogling girls in front ,always being shallow and never being nice to me.with i am with a guy i go unnoticed but other girls they introduce them as they girlfreinds and traeted them well and go out of the way for them but never for me.
all because i am not good enough to be his girlfreind but another always is but never me.blokes are such bastads ,selfish and shallow
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reader, frankiebh  +, writes (20 December 2008):
i feel the same as you.
it seems like evey guy i date screws me over.
you are not alone, ill tell you all of my break up stories.
1)guy breks up wiht girl because she cries.(she cries because she misses him)
2)guy breaks up with girl because he is going back to college and is actualy a pathological liar.
3)guy breaks up with girl because he met some other chick. ON THE INTERNET.5 states away.
4)guy dosnt date girl because hes a werido and doesnt have any real feelings.
5)guy cheats on girl because he hasnt seen her in a month, gets horny, fucks other girl.
6)guy dates girl for three days and then breaks up with her to go back out with the ex.
you are certianly ont alone.
going through all of this crap, you will gian expierence and learn what not to date.its just expierence.you will find someone great some day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): I was dumped, again, about 2.5 months ago. And the kicker is the guy didn't even bother to tell me, just disappeared after 16 months together. Never would talk to me again, after saying "I love you" to me every single night. After saying he wanted to marry me, never met anyone like me, all the sweet things you want to hear.
On one hand I'm developing tendencies to see men like you do, as a bunch of jerks. And it's going to be somewhat hard to trust again after this last one, because I trusted him 100%. The whole time we were together he never gave me reason not to, but then in the end he stabbed me in the back worse than anyone ever did.
BUT, on the other hand, I'm starting to do some introspection to see what role I play in all of my bad relationships. There's something about me that's attracted to men that have the capacity to do these things. I think there ARE good men out there, and I need to change my way of thinking and doing things in order to attract and be happy with one. Maybe this is something you need to work on as well. If you keep repeating the same patterns, you'll keep getting the same result, so try something new. Good luck!
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