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writes:Can anyone please tell me stories of how they got back together with their exes? I recently broke up with mine and was wondering if anyone has ever actually gotten back together with that special someone that left their life and in the end universe managed to bring them back together.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 November 2010):
 Everybody breaks up for a reason, and there are a lot of different reasons out there and a lot of different situations. Your story is unique on its own level and therefore there is not point asking people what happened with them unless it was under the same circumstances as yours was. People can get back together of course they can, but they need to work out the issues that they broke up over in the first place, and both people need to be prepared to work hard on getting through these issues, if the both of you arent prepared then it is not going to happen. The universe is just not going to get the both of you back together, you need to work hard to keep the relationship, things dont just happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2010): ~I DID~
My ex recently returned to me aftere five months...We are friends...not in a relationship...The breakup was very tough for me..but..it benefited me as I was able to step aside and self-reflect where I erred and how I could eliminate those character flaws...It also made the two of us recognize that we really needed to learn one another and never again allow ourselves to fall to the grossly disrespectful level that we fell..flatfaced as well...Additionally, it made me realize that I was being grossly insensitive to a very critical emotional issue that she was enduring and perhaps still enduring purely because I was self-absorbed with my needs thus heartlessly and selfishly subrograting hers to mine...That was wrong...that's now how you do another...She was hurting immensely about something and I dismissed it and while I didn't even realize I was doing it...I did and there's absolutely no justification for excusing it...I know exactly how she feels now and I just want to make her pain go away...What's she's enduring is hard...
But with respect to your situation, I would like to share some advice but because you haven't given any details it will be difficult...Regardless I hope you and your ex reunite and are able to start off again and develop a deeply meaningful friendship even if not a relationship and remain on a positive unbreakable eternal journey.
God Bless~
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