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writes: I'm 21yrs old and have been divorced for nine months. I finally sat down with my ex-husband and we had a good heart to heart. I have come to realise that I still love him and want to try again. Do I ask to try again or do I try to move on?
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reader, Aunt Audrey  +, writes (12 April 2006):
 Whether you want to give your relationship another go depends on whether your ex feels the same way.
You do not say why you divorced in the first place and Aunt Claire is quite right in what she says, you have to be quite certain that you can both put the past behind you and ensure the same problems do not arise again.
Many people divorce through anger and sometimes when the dust has settled and situations can be reasessed and spoken about without anger or resentment, we see things more clearly, and realise that maybe we acted a little too hastily, and had we given each other more time we could have possible resolved the situation without divorcing.
I hope if you are both happy to give your relationship another try you don't rush back into marriage too quickly, be absolutly sure it will work second time around before commiting yourselves again.
Good luck.x
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (12 April 2006):
 dear reader this all depends on what you split up for in the first place and if the same thing is going to happen again if you are both sure things will be better and try your hardest not to think of the past (that could ruin it for starters) then i don't see any problem why you shouldn't try againi hope you make the right chopice for both your sakesgood luck xxx
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