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writes: hello, I been dating this girl for about 6 months now and we had our share of problems. I haven't seen her in about two weeks and when I talk to her on the phone her whole attitude has changed. (She doesn't sound loving anymore.) I am really in love with her and she is coming to see me today, but she says she doesn't want a boyfriend anymore because it is another responsiblility that she does not want in her life right now. She says I have her as a friend if I want that. How could her feelings change so quickly? And what could her intentions be of coming to see me, if she only wants to be a friend? And my final question is, what can I do to get her back to the g Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2006): the problem is that you were too available to her for the past few months...women want what they cant have....tell her you feel the same and are glad that she brought this up first..that will set the seeds of doubt in her mind...otherwise move on and get someone who really cares for you.....good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2006): You must talk to her but be open minded. Really listen to what she has to say. If you really love her like you say you do you will be patient and understanding. Rather have her in your life as a friend than loose her completely. If you are meant to be anything more that friends it will happen but it might take some time. Don't put presure on her because that will only push her further away.
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