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Real love? How do you know?

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Question - (18 July 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *eRd 1232 writes:

How do you know if you are in love?

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A female reader, st-st-stuttastunna! United States +, writes (18 July 2009):

st-st-stuttastunna! agony auntYou prolly won't know until its actually happened to you,

And you might think its love when it actually not.

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And I agree with all of the other answers,

Its a concious decision but most of the time its won't last forever especially if your young.

It might fade.

But that doesn't mean it wasn't real love,

And anyone can disagree with me idc..

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A male reader, Jason32477 United States +, writes (18 July 2009):

Jason32477 agony aunt Love is a great and powerful emotion.And I agree with Felisha.Love is a choice.If someone makes you happy, treats you right, and your able to put your trust in them eventually you will come to realize that you love them.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009):

I hate to sound ageist here, but what you consider to be love will most likely change as you grow older.

As to how do you know, I don't know, you just do.

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A female reader, NeRd 1232 United States +, writes (18 July 2009):

NeRd 1232 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank you everyone who answered this question.

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A female reader, Felisha Marie United States +, writes (18 July 2009):

Felisha Marie agony auntWell...you can't tell if you are 'in love', Love is not some place to be, it is a fully conscious decision you make by yourself. youi choose to love the one you are with...unconditionally and with with your full heart. It's not something you can just throw up your arms and say "I can't help it, I love them!!!" It can be helped and it's all up to you.

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