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writes:So, I'm 13 and I know its a young age and all but I feel very horny so often. Is that normal? My parents dont know but often at night I like to masturbate. I just feel great but is that right? I have no other way to get rid of it, it's too good. Also, ive fantasized about my science teacher and he's pretty cute and he just stares at me all the time with his blue eyes and I know he's hitting on me he always tries to get my attention and he always walks by me everyday. My friends even see him look at me. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): Wow! This is like my story.
I fell in love with my science teacher when I was 13, nearly 14. For 2 years before I was 16 and I finally got to lose my virginity to him I used to masturbate thinking of him, most nights. In truth this was the only person I ever thought of.
I fancied(loved) this teacher, so did some of my friends. I couldn't say he treated me any differently to the other students, other than I used to make the effort to talk to him at the end of lessons or at break time. Any feeling was 99% me, until I was 16 when things quickly progressed from his end too.
We are engaged now, I am 20 and he is 28.
You must respect this guy's professionalism especially since you are still 13. Maybe he just doesn't know how to handle the groupie effect. Talking to my fiance, now, about that time when I was 13, he did feel somewhat taken aback by the "pop star effect". It can be flattering for any young teacher to know that 20% of the girls in a class are thinking about him at night, but it is best that he is allowed to handle it professionally.
At your age best way to show him you "love him" is get really enthusiastic about his subject - become his best student. It will make him keener to do great lessons with the class, and it will kind of snow ball.
If he is on the other hand, a creep, and at my school that was the case with some of the PE teachers, then be careful.
Its good to masturbate, perhaps better than getting together with a jerk who in turn destroys part of your life.
It did turn out that sex with my teacher, when it did happen, was far far better than masturbation. Though admittedly when we are apart, I still DIY.
My best advice, respect your sexuality. Own your feelings. Let love take its path, no rush.
Feel free to read my story:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-an-author-looking-for-your-stories-about.html
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (26 June 2010):
 You sound totally normal to me! Around 13 your hormones are kicking in and getting horny is totally normal. And, fantasizing about teachers is also normal - I know I had a bunch of teacher crushes when I was in school.
But, the thing with teacher crushes is that you need to stay far away from teachers. If you really feel like he's hitting on you, that just makes him a creeper and you should keep your distance. Report him if he gets too inappropriate. While you might like the attention, it's not cool for a grown man to be taking advantage of his students.
You're totally normal. Good luck and be cautious with your teacher!
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reader, amfit15  +, writes (26 June 2010):
um ok i gona try answer all of that inorder so
1 yes its normal most people do even at 13 no one says it specially as girls(not sure why) but there you go there are ppl i no that did so dont worry.
2 fantasizing about people even teachers is normal as well
3 do not get to close to him no matter how much you like him if youre friends are noticing then he sound weired and if he touches you reoirt him! it could be nothing he just i dont no likes your eyes to or as u watch him he watches you but be carefull
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