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writes:I'm not going to go into details, but I'll give points of what he did.1. Emotionally abusive.2. Used me for sex.3. Constantly had girls sleeping at his house.4. Took advantage of me AFTER I had a miscarriage.5. Called me stupid.6. Dragged me away from all my friends.7. Convinced me my family didn't love me.8. Gave me false hope of regaining our relationship.9. Ignored me for 3 months.10. Lied about working all the time.11. Lied about going to bars.12. Lied about not hooking up with girls, and a stripper.13. Ignored me again after promising to work things out, and after saying he loved me for the first time in 5 months where I didn't have to say it first.14. Chose a bar whore (not name calling, she really is a notorious whore) over me.I know that this relationship was a fail. I don't need to be told that. I'm trying SO hard to get over him, but I keep relapsing and going back into my dark place. Every one of my friends bring him up in conversation and it doesn't help!Please, quick advice for getting over a break up faster.
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reader, hlohlo  +, writes (14 March 2013):
 Leave him sweetheart,he doesn't deserve you.We only leave once so must make the best of it.Your happiness comes first.I know its not easy but its worth it.Hope u will try.Gudluck
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (14 March 2013):
 I suggest that you volunteer at a soup kitchen or an animal shelter..... THERE, you will see that your travails are not all that Earth-shattering, after all.... and it could startle you in to figuring out that you can let go of that LOUT who you describe in your submittal, and get on with your life!!!!
good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2013): Cut all contact if you haven't already. Everything, block him on everything and never, ever, not even while drunk talk to him again. If you see him go home.Tell your friends you don't want to hear about him while with them, tell them if they can't do that for then you'll have to avoid them until you're properly over this.Take up some new hobbies, get busy. Sitting in front of facebook all day, or hanging out with friends who only talk about him or other boys is not going to do you any good. Go take up a first aid class, or cooking class in the evenings, go take up a sport, if you already do things like that add more.But most of all don't be afraid to think about all this and be in the dark place, that's how your mind will learn to cope by thinking about him and all that happened, you have to let it burn itself out. If you try push it away or escape it then you're only delaying the healing process, you have to deal with it whether it's now or in a few months.Just be patient it takes time but have nothing to do with him ever again.
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