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writes:This is a two part question.When I am talking to my boyfriend on the phone at night, if it gets to be maybe 12 or 1 in the morning he insists that I go to sleep and get some rest, but I almost feel like he's trying to get rid of me and I'm a little hurt that he doesn't want to talk to me longer. Am I being over sensitive?Also when I talk to him should I only talk about positive things and never talk about anything sad or too intense? Because I know he's already stressed out about things in his life and I feel guilty for talking about intense subjects like fear of dying; etc. Reply to this Question
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reader, natmarie  +, writes (23 March 2010):
 It sounds like yo may be a bit afraid of his moods? and what you can and cannot talk about? It seems there may be underlaying issues here. it sounds a bit familiar - as I had a boyfriend like that. x
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reader, mariposies +, writes (23 March 2010):
mariposies is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for your responses. do u think it would be necessary to apologize?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2010): Yes... you are being oversensitive, he wants to go to sleep, don't take it personally. By him saying that you should get some rest he's probably trying to say that he wants to get some sleep without hurting your feelings.
Its good to talk about positive things, (nobody likes to listen to an excessively bitter whinger), but if its an issue that's important to you then feel free. Or better yet, just wait until you see him in person to talk about intense things, because things can seem a lot less full-on when you can get a hug at the end :)
Best of luck
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reader, Sarah_87 +, writes (23 March 2010):
well i dont think it's because he doesnt want to talk to you, i think its because its 1am and he's probably knackered and wants to go to sleep! so yeah i think you are being a bit over sensitive chick, theres no need to talk that late anyway, you have the whole day to talk to each other and if you talk on the phone till 1am every morning your deffo gonna run out of things to say to eachother lol.
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