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writes:Question for the women: How often do you tell a guy the sex "great" or "amazing" or something similar? I realized the other day that my GF almost never says anything like that. But, then again we've been going out for several years so it seems somewhat unrealistic to expect a woman to say the sex was amazing every time. She will often tell me how orgasms she had, and she will sometimes say "that was big one" (orgasm), but she normally says it in a rather matter of fact tone, like it's no big deal.I can't remember for sure, but I don't remember my prior girlfriends saying "that was amazing" or anything like that either. But, I do know they had plenty of orgasms. (yes, I'm sure they weren't faking it!)If you've been in a relationship for som time, do you typically say anything to a guy after having sex whether it was good or bad? (I can't imagine a woman saying "that really sucked!")
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (25 August 2011):
 If I think it is important to let my guy know that I was satisfied, I enjoyed myself, compliment him, etc in the afterglow. My lover can always tell physically that he rocked my world.
I even made a lover laugh, because the first thing I thought of after our first time was.."Thank You." He took it as a nice little pat on the head. I saw in his face he thought I was patronizing him. I quickly kissed him and said.."Oh no...that is really appreciative gratitude! I had forgotten how amazing it feels to..." He got the message.
I think you might be a bit too picky on how your girl responds. Personally, I think it is a bigger compliment to make a woman SPEECHLESS after sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2011): I personally never said it. But I'm curious do you ever say it to your partner? Maybe if you said it to her when you thought she was good she would start doing it to. Take the lead.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (25 August 2011):
 That really depends on the woman you know. It's not a general thing that you can say all women should say at this or that point. Some women hate talking about sex, or hate talking during sex, and women as well as men can be silent as oysters in bed.
I think you've just never come across a vocal woman. Me myself can talk a lot during sex, I get it if my partner doesn't like talking and wants me to be quiet, but if I'm allowed to do as I wish I'm practically a chatterbox in the sack. I like dirty talking, role playing, loud moaning and yes, when things are amazing I say they are amazing. Mostly after the sex I can sum it up by saying it's amazing. During the act I'll be too busy moaning and sweating my back off.
If the woman you are with hasn't uttered much in bed for years.. then I don't think it has anything to do with the quality of the sex, but everything to do with how vocal she is.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (25 August 2011):
 In or out of a relationship, if I've had a good time, I do let the guy know. It could range from "You are absolutely amazing, darling" to "Nice load, sugar", but I do like to give a compliment. That said, I haven't been in a lot of relationships. The present one is closing in on six months-ish now so it's too early to tell.
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