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26-29,
*exybabe13
writes: hi. im in need of advice on how to get this boy to notice me. ok, so i have been going to this camp for two weeks, and the last is when the guy of my dreams shows up, and within a couple of hours, we are friends. he hangs out with me and some other girls but the prob is me and some of the girls like him. in that case , i asked my friend to ask him if he liked anyone at camp, and he does , but its not me. how can i tell him the way i feel, without freaking him out?
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reader, sexybabe13 +, writes (27 August 2011):
sexybabe13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou. everything turned great. we are actually dating
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reader, littlevoice +, writes (26 August 2011):
Hey, i understand completly what your going through. I have been in this situation too many times in my life, and my answer would be do you really want to lose your friendship?
Of course theres the possiblity he might like you and that you telling him your feelings might not have any bad effect which would be amazing, but if you know for certian he does'nt like you in that way, if you tell him it might change the way he sees you. He might be more akward around you not knowing how to behave for fear of leading you on.
So my suggestion is get to know him a bit more, set your self apart from these other girls he knows, dont get jelous if he goes out with someone else, and hopfully if he's the right one he'll be worth waiting for, and if not it isnt the end of the world, and remember there are always other people out there who will like you.
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