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*ariusz
writes:Hi there,I am a 31 years old Aries male (with ascendent in Leo) and recently I had an unusual experience with a Sagittarius female. Long story short: I know her for 3 years, but all this time I had another relationship. All this time we were not necessarily good buddies, but we kept somehow contact through Facebook. Last week I have asked her out...classically, in a park. We talked 10 minutes on the phone...but 2 days later, when I've called her back to see what hour we should meet...I got no answer. I called her twice and around evening I have sent her a short message asking her is she's fine. In the meanwhile, 3 days have passed and I have not received any news from her. I like her very much..she is 6-7 years younger than me. We have one common friend to whom I may speak about it, eventually to see what happened. I don't know why I am so clumsy with her...as I have never been in my life. Believe...is the only time when I am trying to "chase" a woman...and the fact that she ignores me, intrigues me a lot.Please advice me what should I do? Should I insist with a phone call few days later? Should I talk to that common friend to transmit her indirectly the message that I like her a lot? Thanks,Dariusz
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reader, tyty  +, writes (8 July 2012):
hey dude...i dont know how long ago this was posted but im answering anyway. dude...im a sagitarius girl and i think you should leave her the hell alone. stop leaving so many messages because itll probablly freak her out when she inds her phone. yup u heard me...unless shes one of those shy and scared/frightened type of sagitariuses (highly doubt it, but hey..) then she probably either lost her phone or forgot about the date. its not like its on purpose or anything but that stuff just happens. just wait a while and let her call u back. or shell probably meet up to you face to face. we like it better that way. all u need to know is, she wouldent have said yes to that date if she dident like you. ...oh and if no one hears from her in a few days....notify the police. seriously.
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reader, Dariusz +, writes (17 July 2011):
Dariusz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have thought about those scenarios Tisha.
She is definitely not to blame for the end of my previous relationship, as she was not part of it at all - as a friend, we have passed a one week holiday together..2 years ago.
On the other hand, I am not that kind of vulnerable person. I am not going to describe myself...but I do not look and I am not that guy - it is not necessarily good.
But there's a detail I skipped...I have contacted her without telling her that my previous relationship has ended....pffff.
I was sure that she knew...don't ask me why..I've just felt it.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (17 July 2011):
 Is it possible she fears being blamed for the end of the other relationship?
Another factor to consider is that sometimes it's risky to date a person who has just ended a relationship. There is something we call a 'rebound' relationship, which is a relationship intended to help the person get over the ex. These are notoriously short-lived and many people avoid dating someone who is freshly-broken-up.
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reader, Dariusz +, writes (17 July 2011):
Dariusz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for clarifying Tisha,
I've ended the other relationship...and I think she already knows that.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (17 July 2011):
A lead-on means someone who is letting you think she is more interested than she actually is.
Are you currently single or are you still dating this other person, just to clarify that point?
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reader, Dariusz +, writes (17 July 2011):
Dariusz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks..but what exactly does it mean "a bit of a lead-on without even realizing it"?
Sorry for my English
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male
reader, Dariusz +, writes (17 July 2011):
Dariusz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Tisha-1,
I am thinking, somehow, the same as you do.
Yet, it intrigues me a lot that she gave her mobile number...we talked on the phone and agreed to go out....and 2 days after she was not answering.
Seeing it through my eyes...I would not react like that, once I agree something with somebody.
For the moment, as I believe there were no personal or family issues to influence this behavior on her side..I'd think she is actually not interested to date me. Again, it intrigues me, but I simply do not know whether is good to insist...or how to insist. Is this type of reaction familiar for a Sagittarius woman?
Thanks again,
Dariusz
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2011): Contact the mutual friend and make sure she is okay, and if she is, be straight up honest about your feelings for her. I don't know about other Saggitarius females, but I can be a bit of a lead-on without even realizing it. Hopefully she'll be honest about her feelings for you. Much love and good luck dear.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (17 July 2011):
I'd check with your mutual friend first to see if she is okay, with no family crises or other emergencies that would prevent her from contacting you. If there is nothing, then I think I would take the hint that she's not actually interested in going out with you, alas. Not getting back to you to schedule a time for the date is a clear indicator she's not interested in having the date. You could tell your mutual friend that you are interested in her and see if that person has any additional information you may not know at this time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2011): Perhaps this might help:
http://www.compatible-astrology.com/sagittarius-woman.html
I'm a Taurean but have ascendant in Sagittarius (hence I can recognise myself a lot in this description and think it's pretty accurate!). Best of luck :)
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reader, Dariusz +, writes (17 July 2011):
Dariusz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSending her some flowers after a while...would it work?
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